The First Woman

The First Woman

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  • Author:Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi
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Summary

In her twelfth year, Kirabo, a young Ugandan girl, confronts a piercing question that has haunted her childhood: who is my mother? Kirabo has been raised by women in the small village of Nattetta—her grandmother, her best friend, and her many aunts, but the absence of her mother follows her like a shadow。 Complicating these feelings of abandonment, as Kirabo comes of age she feels the emergence of a mysterious second self, a headstrong and confusing force inside her at odds with her sweet and obedient nature。


Seeking answers, Kirabo begins spending afternoons with Nsuuta, a local witch, trading stories and learning not only about this force inside her, but about the woman who birthed her, who she learns is alive but not ready to meet。 Nsuuta also explains that Kirabo has a streak of the “first woman”—an independent, original state that has been all but lost to women。 Kirabo’s journey to reconcile her rebellious origins, alongside her desire to reconnect with her mother and to honor her family’s expectations, is rich in the folklore of Uganda and an arresting exploration of what it means to be a modern girl in a world that seems determined to silence women。 Makumbi’s unforgettable novel is a sweeping testament to the true and lasting connections between history, tradition, family, friends, and the promise of a different future。

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Reviews

Basha

Real interesting read, with a super nuanced depiction of relationships in all sorts of forms。 Took a little while to fully get into it, but defo worth it。

Barbara Creemers

Een kanjer van een boek! Het vertelt het verhaal van sterke vrouwen in een decor van onderdrukking en oorlog。 Over de kracht van onderwijs, verhalen, familiebanden en vriendschap。 Ik ben ongelofelijk onder de indruk。Citaat p。 464: “Verhalen zijn van levensbelang , Kirabo。 Als we stil zijn, zal iemand die stilte ogenblikkelijk voor ons opvullen。”

Mugizi Niwo

For depicting Uganda so faithfully and vividly, I love you Makumbi。

Debbie Mcafee

“Promise me you will pass on the story of the first woman。 It was given to me by women in captivity。 They lived an awful state of migration, my grandmothers。 Telling origin stories was their act of resistance。 。 。 。 Stories are critical。 The minute we fall silent, someone will fill the silence for us。”Girl power rocks—even in 1975 Uganda。 Great book; unique story! I’m a sucker for coming of age stories, and this one fills the bill。 Great connections with both the motif of water and females and g “Promise me you will pass on the story of the first woman。 It was given to me by women in captivity。 They lived an awful state of migration, my grandmothers。 Telling origin stories was their act of resistance。 。 。 。 Stories are critical。 The minute we fall silent, someone will fill the silence for us。”Girl power rocks—even in 1975 Uganda。 Great book; unique story! I’m a sucker for coming of age stories, and this one fills the bill。 Great connections with both the motif of water and females and grandmothers。 My only challenge was the Ugandan names and some of the cultural and geographical references; I wanted more history and explanations。 Biggest message: stories matter。 I love Kirabo and hers。 Almost a 5 for me。 Recommend。 。。。more

Allie Millette

4。5/5 such a beautiful and thought provoking read <3 i highly recommend this book !!

Sarah

I gave up on this one for now。

Emma

!!!! Okay this is really good and i texted anesu abt it at 04h00 when i couldnt sleep。 What i liked most about it was that it wasnt written for a western audience:- every page had non-english words or phrases (all Luganda? Maybe?)- turns of phrase and idioms and metaphors were not western and didnt explain themselves — for the Ugandan reader- cultural references were unapologetically only for the Ugandan/southern African reader! Like, i dont need to explain geography or family structure to you, !!!! Okay this is really good and i texted anesu abt it at 04h00 when i couldnt sleep。 What i liked most about it was that it wasnt written for a western audience:- every page had non-english words or phrases (all Luganda? Maybe?)- turns of phrase and idioms and metaphors were not western and didnt explain themselves — for the Ugandan reader- cultural references were unapologetically only for the Ugandan/southern African reader! Like, i dont need to explain geography or family structure to you, American!!!!!!! (!!!!)- anti colonial 😍 anti christian 🥰 anti capitalist 😌 anti british 🤩- VERY explicit abt its feminism (i use feminism bc i cant remember how to spell the word she uses for Ugandan feminism)。 I thought at first it was going to read like those shitty coming of age novels where it’s like all the author has read is Roxanne Gay and now feels like an expert on intersectional feminism。 But no! It was clear and pointed and Ugandan and really served the novel’s purposeIm going to recommend this to athena because i think she will really like it and it fits well within her definitions of feminism 😎 。。。more

Lydia Auch

Maybe a 4 but idk it just felt unfinished

Martin

I was impressed with Kintu and am happy to say the sequel was just as impressive。I relish books like this that take me inside a civilisation I know very little about (we have all heard of Idi Amin )。。。it's history, culture with mwenkanonkano (feminism) underlying the story。 I was impressed with Kintu and am happy to say the sequel was just as impressive。I relish books like this that take me inside a civilisation I know very little about (we have all heard of Idi Amin )。。。it's history, culture with mwenkanonkano (feminism) underlying the story。 。。。more

Clare

What I most like about a good book is being transported to a time and a place, and that’s exactly what The First Woman did for me。 I love reading books that are set in countries and cultures that are completely different to my own, and I always hope that I’ll finish the book having learnt something new。 The First Woman taught me so much that I didn’t know about the clan system in Uganda, and about what it means to be a woman there。 To be honest, it seems something of a minefield to live in a sys What I most like about a good book is being transported to a time and a place, and that’s exactly what The First Woman did for me。 I love reading books that are set in countries and cultures that are completely different to my own, and I always hope that I’ll finish the book having learnt something new。 The First Woman taught me so much that I didn’t know about the clan system in Uganda, and about what it means to be a woman there。 To be honest, it seems something of a minefield to live in a system of not just clans, but also class and ethnic groups。 Kirabo, the main character, also has to deal with the patriarchal system, colonialism and the hardships of Idi Amin’s regime。 But this is essentially a coming of age story。 It’s the story of how Kirabo lives and grows up, about her longing fo the mother she has never met, about how she wants to find a place for herself in the world。 It’s about mwenkanonkano - feminism - and how hard it is for Ugandan men to accept it。 And finally, it’s about kweluma, and how people police, instead of support, one another。 As Nsuuta says to Kirabo: “That is when oppressed people turn on each other or on themselves and bite。 It is a form of relief。 If you cannot bite your oppressor, you bite yourself。” I loved this book: I empathised with Kirabo and her grandmothers friend Nsuuta。 I admired that children were always first and foremost in a family and a clans mind, and I have to admit to struggling a little with the fact that women didn’t seem to have any rights over their children。Would I recommend this book? Yes, I would。 It’s a book that I’m glad came up on the Jellybooks programme, so thank you Jellybooks! 。。。more

Ginni

Excellent - my copy was the hardback, so a different title - ‘The First Woman’; I chose it at random from the shelves of my local library。 I thought this was going to be a political story about Idi Amin’s Uganda, but it is more a Bildungsroman or coming of age novel。 It is intensely readable, and has a very engaging central character, Kirabo, who has been raised by her paternal grandparents in rural Uganda in the ‘60s and ‘70s。 Her grandparents are in favour of education for girls, and so Kirabo Excellent - my copy was the hardback, so a different title - ‘The First Woman’; I chose it at random from the shelves of my local library。 I thought this was going to be a political story about Idi Amin’s Uganda, but it is more a Bildungsroman or coming of age novel。 It is intensely readable, and has a very engaging central character, Kirabo, who has been raised by her paternal grandparents in rural Uganda in the ‘60s and ‘70s。 Her grandparents are in favour of education for girls, and so Kirabo goes from the village school to boarding school run by nuns。 She also leaves the village and moves to Kampala to live with her father and his wife - who is not her mother。 Throughout the book, Kirabo searches for her birth mother; there are large families and clans, with all the traditions and complications of family life。 The description of village life is very vivid and engaging, and although Luganda words are used throughout, the story is so compelling that one just accepts, for example, that matooke is a food without worrying what type of food it is。 There is a cast of key characters at the back of the hardback; it would have been useful to have at the start of the book - perhaps the paperback has remedied this。I will definitely be looking out for other works by this author, especially ‘Kintu’。 I will also be recommending it to our daughters。 。。。more

isidora

3。5I really need, at the very least, the option of 0。5 stars。 I often read a book and the general impression is very good but then I'm confronted with a decision: should I give it 3 or 4 stars。 Three looks too few, four maybe too much, 3。5 would be perfect, but alas。 So I am petitioning once again for a better rating system on GR。 3。5I really need, at the very least, the option of 0。5 stars。 I often read a book and the general impression is very good but then I'm confronted with a decision: should I give it 3 or 4 stars。 Three looks too few, four maybe too much, 3。5 would be perfect, but alas。 So I am petitioning once again for a better rating system on GR。 。。。more

Teresa Mills-Clark

A great book for book club!

Kristi

There are many aspects of this book that I love: the focus on the importance of stories; learning about life in Uganda in the 70s; several strong female protagonists along with some lovely men。 The feud between the grandmothers, and the section focusing on them, was my favorite of many related storylines。 However, I found the storytelling a bit uneven。 This won the Jhalak prize and while it is a good book- in parts a very good book - “Rainbow Milk” is still far and away my favorite of the shortl There are many aspects of this book that I love: the focus on the importance of stories; learning about life in Uganda in the 70s; several strong female protagonists along with some lovely men。 The feud between the grandmothers, and the section focusing on them, was my favorite of many related storylines。 However, I found the storytelling a bit uneven。 This won the Jhalak prize and while it is a good book- in parts a very good book - “Rainbow Milk” is still far and away my favorite of the shortlist。 。。。more

dana brown

Fascinating book in so many ways。 It’s a wonderful story on the surface but then it began to dawn on me that this author is writing about women and the role we play in family and community - in the past and now。 And how everything and nothing has changed。 It’s about the powerful union of women and men that is at the core of it all。 It’s about Uganda。 And there is a lot to laugh (and cry) about - like the statement that for girls are taught that sex is sacred while boys are taught it is a snack。 Fascinating book in so many ways。 It’s a wonderful story on the surface but then it began to dawn on me that this author is writing about women and the role we play in family and community - in the past and now。 And how everything and nothing has changed。 It’s about the powerful union of women and men that is at the core of it all。 It’s about Uganda。 And there is a lot to laugh (and cry) about - like the statement that for girls are taught that sex is sacred while boys are taught it is a snack。 So much in one book。 。。。more

Anna

3。5 🌟

Zara Zaman

An in depth story that sometimes favours explanatory detail over action making it slow moving at times, but heartwarming and empowering nonetheless

Kriti Talwar

THE FIRST WOMAN“They claimed that the very first woman emerged from the sea and the first man emerged from Land, and both sea and women are baffling, water has no shape and is inconsistent, it cannot be tamed, you cannot draw borders on the ocean”Themes: Uganda history, folktales, feminism, religion, abandonment, betrayal, family drama, love, grief。This book is a coming age novel with the theme of feminism in 1970’s, set up in Uganda a small town in East Africa。This book brings us the story of THE FIRST WOMAN“They claimed that the very first woman emerged from the sea and the first man emerged from Land, and both sea and women are baffling, water has no shape and is inconsistent, it cannot be tamed, you cannot draw borders on the ocean”Themes: Uganda history, folktales, feminism, religion, abandonment, betrayal, family drama, love, grief。This book is a coming age novel with the theme of feminism in 1970’s, set up in Uganda a small town in East Africa。This book brings us the story of a 12 year old girl Kirabo, who was abandoned by her mother after birth and is raised by her grandparents。 As she grows older, she has a lot of questions about her mother, who was she, why did she leave her? Is it because she could fly out of her body {you’ll know when you read the book} or was it because her skin was too dark? What was her fault?Over these 400 pages, we see Kirabo grow from a young child who was mischievous, immature, sceptical, baffling to a young woman who is more mature and modest。 Kirabo cannot move pass the fact that her mother abandoned her。 Thus she decides to do whatever it may require to find her mother。 But this book is so much more than just Kirabo finding her mother。There is so much happening in this book but he author did a great job。 I really enjoyed reading this book, it is structured, well written, the themes of the book are spread out all over the book and layered out perfectly。 The writing in the book will keep you grasped till the end。Character development: it is one of the most important things for a book to be success。 The character growth in this book can be seen clearly, and it is not just a straight line。 There were ups and downs which made the characters more real。 The most development and growth was seen in KIrabo。 I really liked how she grew up to be a headstrong bold women, accepting herself as she is from a doubtful sceptical kid she was。 She had some real growth and development and I really liked how the author maintained Kirabo’s essence till the end。The other characters I really liked were, Mirro, who is Kirabo’s grandfather。 Like it is said, behind every successful man there is a woman。 Likewise behind every successful woman there is a man。 I enjoyed seeing Mirro so free spirited, open and broad minded gave Kirabo the autonomy to be herself and never tried to oppress her。 Honestly speaking we need such men in our life, who allow us to be unapologetically ourselves。 Women don’t need men to protect them or provide for them, they just need some support。The other characters in the book that need an honourable mention are Nsuuta and Aunt Abi。 The two other people who were there for Kirabo through everything, supported her, I love these two woman, for being badass。 They are unapologetically themselves, strong headed and bold。Now, I loved this book so much then why not give it 5 starts。 Well here is why。 There were a few instances in the book that better be removed because I find then un-concerning to the book。In the beginning of the book, we see some magical realism, which later on disappears, and is never ever mentioned。 I did not understand the relevance of it。 And sometimes I found a few things very confusing, like a few facts about Uganda history or the religion or norms, I found these things were not clearly explained for a person who doesn’t know anything about Uganda or its traditions。Also I found way too many errors in this book, like wrong name used at wrong place。 Several times I had to go back and see if I misread something or it really was written wrong。 Now I don’t have any problem with a few errors, but these confused me so much。Overall this was a great read and I would highly recommend it to anyone who wants to read about# Uganda history# Strong protagonists# A masterpiece on feminism 。。。more

Samir Rawas Sarayji

The start of this book threw me in doubt as to whether I’d finish it because it felt like much of the current women’s African literature out there at present。 And after having been thoroughly disappointed by the author’s short story collection Manchester Happened, I started feeling that maybe she was a one-hit wonder for me, with her phenomenal book Kintu being the one-hit。 Kintu was so brilliant in story and execution that it is in my favorite’s shelf, so I persevered on with The First Woman。 G The start of this book threw me in doubt as to whether I’d finish it because it felt like much of the current women’s African literature out there at present。 And after having been thoroughly disappointed by the author’s short story collection Manchester Happened, I started feeling that maybe she was a one-hit wonder for me, with her phenomenal book Kintu being the one-hit。 Kintu was so brilliant in story and execution that it is in my favorite’s shelf, so I persevered on with The First Woman。 Good call。Once the parallels between Kirabo’s story and that of her grandmother and Nsuuta were established, the fun and page-turning picked up。 What I notice is Makumbi’s greatest talent in writing a novel is her using literary devices to serve the story that needs to be told。 There are no gimmicks and there is no pretentiousness, and best of all, the author does not interject in the story。 I was always with the characters and became wrapped up in their emotions and worked up with their dilemmas。 There is nothing more lovely than being swept up into the novel’s story and forgetting I was once an editor。Back to Mukumbi’s talent, her structural outlay of storytelling is positioning the right chapters at the right moment。 She did this amazingly well in Kintu (a much more complicated novel) and she showed her brilliance yet again in this novel。 And when I realized the set up of the parallel dilemma’s between Kirabo’s situation with Sio and that of Grandmother, Nsuuta and Grandfather, Makumbi used the comparison just enough to highlight recurrence in the women’s plight in the culture and the ease with which one can fall into hypocrisy, yet the comparison was not overused to the point of shallowness or predictability of the protagonist’s outcome。 Makumbi’s other talent in both novels is to open up my eyes and immerse me in Ugandan culture and rural life by showing me how her characters live, love, interact, dream, suffer and have pleasure。 Stories and beliefs shared through generations within clans begin to shine through Makumbi’s own story。 Finally, the issues of the women and the clan’s view of their inferiority compared to the men is beautifully illustrated without wagging fingers or blaming, but instead through logical analysis of the emotions driving these powerful women to succeed in both life and family。 A highly recommended read, especially to those who enjoy modern African writing。 。。。more

Lu-Ann Caron-Leslie

It is a unique look into the lives of folks in uganda around the time of idi amin。 Well writtten and thought provoking。

Catherine Kozak

Did not finish。 Will try again。

Neele

I recommend this book to anyone, especially people interested in non-western feminism。 I would have loved to see an inclusion of luganda words in the (e-)book, though。

Dimple

The First Woman by Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi- 4 🌟Content warnings: misogyny, infidelity, cancer, death, sexism。 -- Remember, be a good person, not a good girl。 Good girls suffer a lot in this life。 --The First Woman also knows as A Girl Is A Body Of Water (I liked this title so much more that The First Woman and when you will read it, I’m sure you will understand why this is the case) is a coming-of-age novel about Kirabo who wants to find out about her mother and why her mother decided to aban The First Woman by Jennifer Nansubuga Makumbi- 4 🌟Content warnings: misogyny, infidelity, cancer, death, sexism。 -- Remember, be a good person, not a good girl。 Good girls suffer a lot in this life。 --The First Woman also knows as A Girl Is A Body Of Water (I liked this title so much more that The First Woman and when you will read it, I’m sure you will understand why this is the case) is a coming-of-age novel about Kirabo who wants to find out about her mother and why her mother decided to abandon her。 However, when you read this book, you realize this book is so much more than that, its about culture and family and complicated relationship and growth。 The writing of the book is very beautiful because it kept me hooked until the end, not because it was fast paced but because it had that beauty which kept me hooked。 We first meet Kirabo at the age of twelve and through out the book we see her as a young child, then a teenager and then almost a young-adult。 I love how the author has shows Kirabo as a child and not some overly mature one, she’s childish, she’s irritating and I think because she was the way she was, it made it more realistic。 My favourite characters were Nsuutu and Aunt Abi, those two women who had a lot in common because they were unapologetically themselves, they honestly have my whole heart for being independent women, for choosing their own success of marriage and for not giving into the patriarchal norms。 Another character I really adored was Miiro who reminded me so much of my own grandfather, who encouraged his children and his grandchildren to get education regardless of their gender and even when they’re farmers in a patriarchal society。 I loved the cultural representation in this book that is one of the reasons why I really liked it, it had Ugandan words and teachings and the most important mwenkanonkano which roughly means feminism。 The only reason why I’m not giving those book 5 stars is because occasionally this book became really slow and because there were quite a few characters I hated (not revealing the names)To conclude, this book which is rich in cultural representation, history, a little bit of mythology and strong female characters following the mwenkanonkano principle is honestly a treat to the readers and I am very excited to read Kintu (because of Nnambi) 。。。more

Dara

4 stars - original, fresh and beautifully woven story Women, their power and their lack thereof。 Coming of age。 Finding yourself。 Poverty。 Politics。 Pain。 Friendships。 Family。 There is A LOT in this novel。 It's beautifully written。 Not 5 stars for me only because it feels like it could be a lite tighter in places in the middle。 The beginning and end and the core female relationships are amazing。 4 stars - original, fresh and beautifully woven story Women, their power and their lack thereof。 Coming of age。 Finding yourself。 Poverty。 Politics。 Pain。 Friendships。 Family。 There is A LOT in this novel。 It's beautifully written。 Not 5 stars for me only because it feels like it could be a lite tighter in places in the middle。 The beginning and end and the core female relationships are amazing。 。。。more

Blaire Desormeaux

I was first attracted to its gorgeous cover and then compelled by the rich culture and clever storytelling。 It's a coming-of-age novel with the protagonist, Kirabo, navigating her adolescence and young adulthood in Uganda in the 1970s/80s。 Kirabo's mother abandoned her when she was a baby, so Kirabo has been raised by her grandparents and other relatives。 In her teenage years, her ambitions and romantic interests are ahead of their time, and she pushes to get what she truly desires despite being I was first attracted to its gorgeous cover and then compelled by the rich culture and clever storytelling。 It's a coming-of-age novel with the protagonist, Kirabo, navigating her adolescence and young adulthood in Uganda in the 1970s/80s。 Kirabo's mother abandoned her when she was a baby, so Kirabo has been raised by her grandparents and other relatives。 In her teenage years, her ambitions and romantic interests are ahead of their time, and she pushes to get what she truly desires despite being part of a traditional culture that prefers women to be submissive。There was a significant language/cultural barrier that was overwhelming at times (I really wish I had noticed that there's a cast of characters listed in the end--that would have been super helpful!) and made me feel like I was missing something。 There are undoubtedly references that sailed right over my head。 Yet, I still got the meat of the story。 It was a deeply beautiful, complex immersion into a world totally different from my own。 。。。more

Kate Snewin

I found Kirabo such an engaging character to follow and grow with。 The cultural details were so interesting and how feminism is woven in。 The relationship between Nsutta and Kirabo was the most interesting to me。 I found it a little long, in that it could have been cut down but I found myself wanting to read it and find out what happened。

Patricia Coloma

What a wonderful book! It reminded me about Toni Morrison’s Sula… “ But only a woman knows how to love a woman properly “ (539)。

Alison

I did have a bit of a hard time keeping track of who was who as most names began with a double n but a solid read。

Star

**4。5-5 stars**Epic, trans-generational story depict the rite of passage into adulthood set in rural Uganda spanning the period from mid 1930's through to mid 1980's 。The book told of the changes that swept Uganda around the time it gained independence in 1960's and focused on the years when Idi Amin was in power。 Rich in history, Uganda is a conglomerate of tribes and indigenous group with history of conflicts, abduction and slavery。 The tribe and its sub-group of clans are central to Ugandan i **4。5-5 stars**Epic, trans-generational story depict the rite of passage into adulthood set in rural Uganda spanning the period from mid 1930's through to mid 1980's 。The book told of the changes that swept Uganda around the time it gained independence in 1960's and focused on the years when Idi Amin was in power。 Rich in history, Uganda is a conglomerate of tribes and indigenous group with history of conflicts, abduction and slavery。 The tribe and its sub-group of clans are central to Ugandan identity。Under the protectorate of the British Empire - the more educated Ugandan became more Westernised。 Religion played a role in reshaping the value-set, and the Church was used as a tool of colonisation。 Urban living, together with modern conveniences replaced the social status of owning and living off the land。After the military coup, the 'Africanisation' Policy resulted in the expulsion of Asians & foreigners in 1970's which resulted in economic collapse。 Under the regime, there was social disintegration, economic downturn and massive human rights violations。 The book also covered the period of time during the Uganda-Tanzania War of the late 1970's。The central story was to do with life as a woman in a country that is so deeply entrenched in the patriarchal values, which defined the role of women as property or migrants - never having the right to land, assets or even to their own children。A sweeping story of love, friendship, identity and a coming of age (perhaps symbolised in the reference to the Kadodi ritual) - I was totally enthralled。Thanks to Jellybooks to the author for giving me the opportunity to review this amazing book。 。。。more

Karen

Slow start but lovely story。 Listened to it on Audible, great characters。